to be or not to be........

“I deeply know u can be a great mommy...coz u r smart, funny, interesting, loving and u can make your children proud if u, really. You don't have to change to be like other mom…like stick to the routine, or be ordinary. I believe you can do wonders just being YOU!!!!”

“Yes...there are a few things that u need to sacrifice but it doesn't mean you have to stop doing what you love…think of it as ...postpone it...and plan the right time to jump right back into it”

“I'm definitely sure...you'll be crying when you see how your hubby really show his love and care towards your children...so damn priceless”

“He can say anything not to hurt your feelings”

“Yes, yes, yes....both of you are ready! At least 1...your very own”

“It is not that I'm not on your side...But I just don't want you to miss this tiny special part of life that you have not discovered it”

*message from Sabel hit my inbox…after I told her how stressful I’m on to be or not to be…..with the pressure from surroundings…and maybe ME!